TOPIC 1: Why is the birthrate so low in Japan?
Hi everyone and hope you are enjoying the beautiful rain we are having. I planned a barbeque at the park just last week without checking the weather forecast beforehand. I guess I can say it is just my luck that the rain made my picnic an event to remember!
Enough about me, hope everyone is having a great month. At least we can say that the cold winter is behind us.. 🙂 I never thought I would ever say goodbye to winter in JUNE! Weather has been extremely erratic this year.
Now that I have complained enough about the weather, let me dig right in and restart the topic that was at hand last month. Why is the birthrate so low in Japan?
I know I mentioned how some causes may have been attributed to the rising costs of raising children and lack of support and services for families such as day care faciliities to accomdate working parents.
I would like to dig deeper. Rather than talk about what the government has been doing to increase or promote more children, I want to touch on why married people in Japan have less "quality time" with one another.
I know it may be taboo to talk about this in Japanese society, but when I googled "japanese marriage couples", I learn how this topic is the most talked about "untalked about" topic.
Is it because men are too tired or overworked? Are women not interested anymore? What is causing this "decreased" interest in intimacy among married couples? Could it be the uncertainty of the economy and the stability of jobs that is causing a situation of stress to build among couples?
More interestingly, it seems that this trend is moving over to single men as well. Some of my students have mentioned how younger men in Japan are less interested in pursuing relationships and prioritize more on enjoying their life. Have the "hunters" become less interested in pursuing the "prey" for lack of a better word?
My female students jokingly refer to these new breed of men as "grass eaters". Rather than brushing that statement aside, I seriously want to understand why it is that our society is no longer interested or at least it seems in growing our population.
Is marriage in itself not attractive anymore or the responsibilties of marriage that has resulted in a climate where our population growth is as stagnant as our economy?
Please comment below with your opinions.
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