Who sits where? Customarily, a dinner party at home or at a restaurant has an even number of men and women guests. Although there is no need to cling to this tradition, husbands and wives are usually seated separately and the seating arrangement alternates male–female–male. The male guest of honor usually sits on the right […]
What should I wear? It is the host’s duty to let his guests know what attire would be most appropriate. “Please come dressed anyway you would like,†is not helpful to a guest who wants to fit in with everyone else. If the host does not make the suitable attire clear, the following guidelines will […]
What should I do if I can’t go? You can decline an informal invitation by telephone (“I’m sorry, but I have other plans.†“That sounds wonderful, but I’m afraid I can’t make it.â€). It is unnecessary to explain in detail why you cannot attend. If the invitation is formal, and there is no telephone number […]
